tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post7209698094204353790..comments2024-03-25T20:45:09.957+05:30Comments on On The Ganga Mail: FidelityBishwanath Ghoshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09499834715638337891noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-46289439332388263172008-06-04T00:39:00.000+05:302008-06-04T00:39:00.000+05:30You sound like a bitter idiot. There are plenty of...You sound like a bitter idiot. There are plenty of men and women out there who don't cheat out of respect, self-dignity, friendship, love and pure intelligence... the same way you wouldn't talk shit behind your best friends back without feeling like a jerk. The thing that separates us from animals is that we have common sense, logical thought and willpower. This (you little scientist you) is called evolution; the same way we don't need our tonsils anymore. We don't go around screwing who ever we want using instinct as an excuse when it is obvious we have evolved into clear thinking individuals. All I've gotten from this article is that you would cheat, and have probably been cheated on... a million times. Women are just as tempted as men, love looking at beautiful men and have ten times more opportunity... so stop trying to make this just a man thing... you just want an excuse to whip out your tiny little friend. Typically people who cheat are insecure as well as emotionally and mentally immature. If it is instinct to cheat then why do humans also have such strong instincts to be jealous at the idea of it? Why aren't we wired to be ok with it?? You talk of ignorance yet you are ignorant to act as though you know how every man in the world thinks and acts when really it is just how you and whoever you associate with think and act. You are not some sort of stray dog or wild gorilla, you're a grown man... supposedly. For humans sexual appetite is no different than hunger. If you're Grandma is making dinner for you and you happen to pass a restaurant that smells and looks good you are able to use your willpower as an intelligent human being to keep driving b/c you know you will get a delicious meal later and you don't want to ruin your appetite. Similarly, if you pass a girl who looks and smells good you use your willpower and intelligence to look out of appreciation (the same way people admire BMWs) but then go home and fuck your wife as to not ruin your relationship. Most people don't cheat, not b/c they are scared, but b/c they are a decent human being with a conscience who doesn't want to feel the horribly guilt every time their significant other looks up at them with trusting unknowing eyes... and they feel this horrible guilt even though they know they won't get caught. Ever think of that?? No you didn't b/c your way of thinking is similar to a truck driver who frequents glory holes. <BR/>p.s. - fantisizing about other people is not cheating you mental case... you have mommy issuesPurified Brain Dumphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01829078944942027321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-13907664783698997192007-11-24T02:52:00.000+05:302007-11-24T02:52:00.000+05:30As a woman who did not worry about her husband str...As a woman who did not worry about her husband straying (why would he?) and who never considered straying either (once saw a guy who I immediately knew to stay away from and did), I do not believe people refrain from straying only because of fear etc. Sometimes it is out of commitment. They signed up for marriage and all that it is supposed to entail. Is there no other person in this world male or female who believes in real love, the kind of legends? I still do even though my 22 yr marriage has shown me my s/o does not, but that is him and not me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-58620641513417624452007-06-04T18:16:00.000+05:302007-06-04T18:16:00.000+05:30Well Mr Ghosh, how about you look at another angle...Well Mr Ghosh, how about you look at another angle to this theory you've got on fidelity. Women with husbands like you will definitely go out and make them-selves infidel to save themselves the hurt that comes with knowing that they have a unfaithfull husband and believe me I know many such women who would love to lead a loyal, meaningfull life with their husbands and suffer when they come to understand that it is not possible with this category of men you so non chalantly advertise and go out and defy the word fidelity with a vengeance.<BR/>Then you have the sobbing and drunken husbands who wonder what turned their simple loving wifes into bithces and shrews who could walk out on them even if they were in their death bed without so much as a second glance hand in hand perhaps with a "supposedly" faithfull guy. <BR/>However hope that does not happen to you some day as Im quite sure you would not have married the weepy, doormat kind of a women from the little I understand of you from your writing. <BR/>Just a feminine point of view...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-27270630055962506242007-06-02T21:21:00.000+05:302007-06-02T21:21:00.000+05:30P.S: I just realised that if I loose all my weight...P.S: I just realised that if I loose all my weight, I can grow my you know what by over 6.57 inches!!! I could run for world record then :))))Adithyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04458738282194241629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-27798507231863096122007-06-02T21:11:00.000+05:302007-06-02T21:11:00.000+05:30Bang on! Perhaps you should also explore and write...Bang on! Perhaps you should also explore and write about the angle where women uncannily prefer men who are desired by other women. A sort of, 'see I have what you all want'. I have met many of this sort who are perfectly fine with their men bonking other women provided they come back to the nest when its all over. Lucky bums wouldn't you agree?Adithyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04458738282194241629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-41424506196696659542007-06-01T05:50:00.000+05:302007-06-01T05:50:00.000+05:30Anon just 'fore this note,You are so on top of it!...Anon just 'fore this note,<BR/>You are so on top of it!! Besides the time share deal that you are talking about, in some farm areas, they may also be affectionate with their own farm animals. Boundary condition analysis comes so naturally to some of us, don't it ?<BR/>hopikrishnanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-37534941313474121582007-05-31T21:15:00.000+05:302007-05-31T21:15:00.000+05:30may be your perceptions are shaped by the life you...may be your perceptions are shaped by the life you lead. you are a minority, the educated, urban, sexy class.<BR/><BR/>marriage is not sacred in villages. quite often both stray and keep living.<BR/><BR/>the middle class has so many categories.<BR/><BR/>one thing is true, no one can, even the greatest saint, can rein in his mind. mind will stray. sex being an primal instinct, may be the instinct also favours your theory.<BR/><BR/>but, i think its still possible to sleep in the same bed with women and actually sleep :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-57949171779188178792007-05-31T19:02:00.000+05:302007-05-31T19:02:00.000+05:30what's new about the write up? someone's getting t...what's new about the write up? <BR/>someone's getting too inspired by cosmopolitan!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-14831233332716427782007-05-31T10:14:00.000+05:302007-05-31T10:14:00.000+05:30'But just because a man is loyal is no guarantee t...'But just because a man is loyal is no guarantee that the wife will return the favour'...true indeed...been there experienced that...broke up with her...Hell with the bitch!!! Nice post by the way!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-61622558850842594442007-05-31T03:42:00.000+05:302007-05-31T03:42:00.000+05:30men can not stop looking at other women and women ...men can not stop looking at other women and women do look at other men. They may do it in their sub-conscience as their minds are slaved by the ghost of the sacred institution of marriage. <BR/><BR/>If women accept this fact of men, they will realize that it is normal and usually a passing phase unless you are married to Don Juan DeMarco! Plus, they get to keep their men aroused for marital 'bliss' (legal sex) which is probably a more important part of today's marriage than accepted to be. <BR/><BR/>Men, however find it hard to accept their wife looking at other men. Too much ego!Abhishekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09888384739268821710noreply@blogger.com