tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post4314058004222311026..comments2024-03-25T20:45:09.957+05:30Comments on On The Ganga Mail: The Guilt BugBishwanath Ghoshhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09499834715638337891noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-44501235400366201572013-09-16T18:20:30.770+05:302013-09-16T18:20:30.770+05:30Some months ago, I watched this on you tube. Hones...Some months ago, I watched this on you tube. Honestly, I didn't like it much. Today, I saw it here and loved it. <br />When you see something, you see what the person wants to show you but when you read something, you see what you want to see and you see much beyond what the writer may have wanted you to.<br />Anubhutihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03967078639724548476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-64403035929407299142012-06-28T15:33:43.177+05:302012-06-28T15:33:43.177+05:30Somebody had read this post; I came upon this by c...Somebody had read this post; I came upon this by chance, on the landing page of GM. Reiterates what I have always said, felt - this, B, is your metier! Wonderful piece :-)<br />The TomatoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-69595214040596117672010-03-11T11:08:09.419+05:302010-03-11T11:08:09.419+05:30Only one thing to say - Had i been that man i woul...Only one thing to say - Had i been that man i would have felt that I had been grossly violated and asked her to leave very politely!!!Deepika Munothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11617108834740346241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-25133948818276026882010-03-11T11:06:29.208+05:302010-03-11T11:06:29.208+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.Deepika Munothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11617108834740346241noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-30434536109730452562009-11-09T19:40:10.972+05:302009-11-09T19:40:10.972+05:30Love I believe is a conflict between reflexes and ...Love I believe is a conflict between reflexes and reflections..not an original line thoughLakshmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10131764134144215720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-52220522928419810772009-03-24T15:23:00.000+05:302009-03-24T15:23:00.000+05:30Not for all, I disagree there are still some hand ...Not for all, I disagree there are still some hand full of Radha's around who don't bother for the response, happy with what they feel.. not asking for anything in return..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-26101082536734847362009-03-24T10:41:00.000+05:302009-03-24T10:41:00.000+05:30Love is fragile,You said it differently again!!!Lo...Love is fragile,<BR/><BR/>You said it differently again!!!<BR/><BR/>Love is peace!!<BR/><BR/>The beauty about love and peace is that you cannot fight both with any weapons.Infact whatever you use to fight love and peace, you would be the one who would be injured.<BR/>The beauty is love and peace can disarm any weapon.<BR/>I totally agree with you.You dont need a response from the other to plunge in love.Love is an overwhelming feeling and is subjective.<BR/>Radha was a wonderful exponent of the art.She was the wife of Ayana and daughter of Vriushabanu and Kamalavathi.Loving Krishna was her full time job. She never bothered about any response from him. Being in love was by itself a great gift and she enjoyed it to the hilt.<BR/><BR/>Compare it with todays love. What you give depends upon what you get.It can be traded just like any other commodity.Sad indeed.<BR/><BR/>BG I am sorry for using your space.Its your blog which has laid the foundation for the debate.And everything that is strong is usually not visible.:))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-83785417870933605722009-03-24T09:16:00.000+05:302009-03-24T09:16:00.000+05:30Anony!!!Glad to know that you enjoyed reading my c...Anony!!!<BR/><BR/>Glad to know that you enjoyed reading my comments. Actually I dont write specifically for any websites.<BR/><BR/>I am a bit impulsive and when i see a blog provocating my thought, i offer my comments.<BR/><BR/>By the way do you blog?<BR/><BR/>Its so funny communicating in anonymity.Just like two answering machines.<BR/><BR/>AM1:: Hi I am the answring machine of my boss. He is out would you like to leave a message?<BR/>AM2:: Thanks AM1.How are you by the way. I prefer to talk to him when he returns back.::))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-69454998194301925362009-03-24T05:14:00.000+05:302009-03-24T05:14:00.000+05:30That was great nonsense...would like to hear more...That was great nonsense...would like to hear more of this nonsense.....Yes, where there is pain; somewhere there is pleasure....You love someone cause you want to love..you don't ask anything in return, not even a return of "love"...it is just a blissful feeling mixed with pain..you might never ever be together, physically, you might never ever have a relation in paper, you may never ever be together in life...but you can't stop love, it just flows, has wings and will fly to beyond your imagination..you cannot hold love back, the more you try the more it grows.You ask only "Let me love you..just let me be..I ask nothing in return.." Sorry for my nonsense, just got carried away, LOVE is peace....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-20457800155881032182009-03-23T23:48:00.000+05:302009-03-23T23:48:00.000+05:30@ anonymous 9:37p.m.i have been a fan of 'the gang...@ anonymous 9:37p.m.<BR/>i have been a fan of 'the ganga mail' for quite some time..<BR/>your understanding and explanation of issues is beautifully expressed.. would like to read more of your writings, any links??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-40860430782705698212009-03-23T21:37:00.000+05:302009-03-23T21:37:00.000+05:30Hi LOve is Fragile,You know the beauty of understa...Hi LOve is Fragile,<BR/><BR/>You know the beauty of understanding?<BR/>It leaves no room for doubts.When doubts vanish trust emerges.<BR/><BR/>To be in love is to be in trust.<BR/><BR/>That is why it is so difficult to separate lovers. The stronger you try to pull them apart for any reason whatsoever in disapproval of their love, more stronger they bond.<BR/><BR/>It is the absence of mind that makes you fall in love. Using your mind you can never love someone. <BR/><BR/>It would appear that you have succeeded, but the thread will break where it is weakest. It is the mind which prompts you to keep dividing everything that you see and perceive. Mind dwells on division. <BR/>The business of the scientist is to probe. You cannot probe something unless you are prepared to divide it.It is in the disintegration that the mind progressess.<BR/>But love rests on different parameter.<BR/>It needs to integrate constantly for survival.<BR/>That is why love is not open for a probe. Even if you rip it to pieces what are you going to find?<BR/>Simply nothing!!<BR/>Life needs everything.<BR/>Love needs nothing.<BR/><BR/>Everything in this world diminishes when you give.<BR/><BR/>Love is an exception to the rule.<BR/><BR/>The more you give , the more you have.<BR/>Something really wonderful isnt it?<BR/><BR/>Knowledgeable people cant fall in love. Their own knowledge works against them.<BR/>That is why it is said::<BR/>When you are in love , you are not wise::<BR/>When you are wise, you are not in love.<BR/><BR/>Somewhere you said being in love is painful.<BR/>I agree.<BR/>Where there is pain there is also pleasure.Infact life rests on duality.<BR/>Profit and Loss<BR/>Good and Bad<BR/>Pain and Pleasure.<BR/><BR/>These dualities are so finely sutured that you will know about one, only in the absence of the other.<BR/><BR/>Sorry for my nonsense.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-18386399454942157962009-03-23T16:19:00.000+05:302009-03-23T16:19:00.000+05:30Beautiful...who are you..? You are so right. When ...Beautiful...who are you..? You are so right. When you are in love you don't know why, you don't even try to find out the why..Love is just Love..liking is short lived Love is forever and deeperAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-36259213004220863832009-03-23T08:06:00.000+05:302009-03-23T08:06:00.000+05:30When you cling on to words strongly, the meaning g...When you cling on to words strongly, the meaning gets distorted for sure.<BR/><BR/>I was astonished when you mentioned in your comments that you prefer "liking a person" to "Loving a person"<BR/><BR/>Every liking has a reason attached to it. <BR/>You like a woman for she has a pretty face. <BR/>You like mangoes for it tastes wonderful, <BR/>you like surfing for it gives you a great thrill. <BR/><BR/>When the reason vanishes or is substituted with something else, your liking for it disappears.People prefer to like for it gives you opportunities to disown and look for new pastures.<BR/><BR/>Loving a person on the contrary is a different experience altogether. You cant declare as to why you love a person. You are simply clueless. That is because love is a feeling in totality. It gives you no opportunity to disintegrate.<BR/><BR/>Everything about the person you love is so beautiful, you dont want to sit in judgment expressing your likes and dislikes.<BR/><BR/>Assume that you are watching TajMahal from outside and you are simple swept by its grandeur. You say "I like the structure" <BR/>You move inside and enjoy every bit of it and then you declare " I love TajMahal". <BR/><BR/>BG time for you to review:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-17597594299472339602009-03-22T23:00:00.000+05:302009-03-22T23:00:00.000+05:30Typo again..."Being in Love is painful...Typo again..."Being in Love is painful...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-29511747789964820572009-03-22T22:58:00.000+05:302009-03-22T22:58:00.000+05:30Very rightly said..You don't have to like someone ...Very rightly said..You don't have to like someone to love that person..never thought in these terms. Also would like to mention here... True Love does not "most of the time " ask for physical relation, love is just love, you can be deeply in love with someone with no physical relation ever or may be once in a lifetime..Being is love is painful, liking someone does not hurt you, love does...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-67142851629615696052009-03-22T17:47:00.000+05:302009-03-22T17:47:00.000+05:30Love is fragile:Does love necessarily have to be t...Love is fragile:<BR/><BR/>Does love necessarily have to be there in situations like these? In my humble opinion, it is 'liking' and not 'loving' that usually leads to such situations.<BR/><BR/>To like someone, according to me, is anyday better than loving someone. I find 'liking' more honest and intimate than 'loving'. And you don't have to love a person to like him or her.Bishwanath Ghoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09499834715638337891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-65807327292208589612009-03-22T17:09:00.000+05:302009-03-22T17:09:00.000+05:30typo...did not mean the "did" above.But anyways th...typo...did not mean the "did" above.<BR/>But anyways there does not seem to be any love from either side...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-31585353105752789772009-03-22T06:43:00.000+05:302009-03-22T06:43:00.000+05:30did does not seem she was at all in love with him....did does not seem she was at all in love with him. It seems a one night stand...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-23692756962203237472009-03-21T20:46:00.000+05:302009-03-21T20:46:00.000+05:30Is meenakshi another shivani? Only the next post w...Is meenakshi another shivani? Only the next post will tell. Fiction or fact.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-60513405166547689832009-03-21T19:22:00.000+05:302009-03-21T19:22:00.000+05:30Anonymous @ 8.45 AMwell, when you believe in satan...Anonymous @ 8.45 AM<BR/><BR/>well, when you believe in satanic actions, you should also believe in satanic powers. ;)<BR/><BR/>Yours sincerely<BR/>God.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-81042340835414081622009-03-21T08:45:00.000+05:302009-03-21T08:45:00.000+05:30I have always wondered!!!!In every case of adulter...I have always wondered!!!!<BR/><BR/>In every case of adultery the blouse of the woman so perfectly matches with your bed spread:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-37411422326292198092009-03-20T13:44:00.000+05:302009-03-20T13:44:00.000+05:30Thanks, all of you -- Swarup, Nayana, Maya, Sreela...Thanks, all of you -- Swarup, Nayana, Maya, Sreelatha, Soumya, Padma -- for your comments.<BR/><BR/>Anon@11.39AM: Wish you could come out of the veil of anonymity. That's an accurate interpretation which escaped even me when I wrote the story. May your tribe grow.<BR/><BR/>Anon@1.31PM: "Is it really worth it?" I guess that's one question many people ask themselves throughout their lives. Some take the plunge to find the answer, other keep pondering over the question.<BR/><BR/>My next post will be about the story behind this story -- I am not sure if it will interest anyone, but I will still write it to clear my head, to map my thought process.Bishwanath Ghoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09499834715638337891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-7956035801912632902009-03-20T13:31:00.000+05:302009-03-20T13:31:00.000+05:30One night of love. Many nights of regret, sorrow, ...One night of love. Many nights of regret, sorrow, guilt, sleeplessness ...and many other things that could weigh your heart down. <BR/><BR/>Is it really worth it?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-63773568703501905382009-03-20T13:14:00.000+05:302009-03-20T13:14:00.000+05:30Simple,yet gripping. Is your book a collection of ...Simple,yet gripping. Is your book a collection of short stories?Soumyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15822477338657651508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17929252.post-67172163104649067692009-03-20T10:38:00.000+05:302009-03-20T10:38:00.000+05:30who is guilty? - the man or the meenu!!who is guilty? - the man or the meenu!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com